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Discover how your family is designed to thrive—so you can parent with more ease, confidence, and connection.
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There’s no one-size-fits-all for parenting
But deep down, you know: your child isn’t like every other child—and your family isn’t like every other family.
This is where Parenting by Design comes in.
Human Design isn’t just another parenting philosophy—it’s a personalized blueprint for how you and your child are wired to communicate, play, eat, sleep, learn and thrive together.
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Sound like what you need?
Whether you’re struggling to manage your own or your toddler’s emotions, navigating a school system that's not built to support neurodivergent children, trying to communicate with a despondent teen, or feeling overwhelmed by the daily mealtime and bedtime battles...
You’re ready to understand your family’s dynamics on a whole new level—and finally feel like you’re on the same team.
You want tools that honor your child’s individuality instead of one-size-fits-all solutions.
You crave more harmony and connection in your home—without sacrificing your own needs.
You’re tired of second-guessing yourself and want to feel confident in your parenting decisions.
This program is for you if you’re ready to:
This is not a certification program or 101 training. While you will undoubtedly deepen your knowledge of this powerful system, the goal is to help you integrate the information in your family’s human design charts to deliver better parenting outcomes.
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Wish you could parent with more ease?
You want to discover how to parent in a way that feels sustainable for you and your energy levels.
What to expect inside Parenting by Design
The 10-week program is divided into three foundational modules, including weekly experiments and hands-on guidance to help you integrate what you’re learning
This collection of video lessons will cover some of the essential foundations of human design and Alexandra's parenting by design philosophy. In addition to a program overview, these videos will explain the anatomy of a human design chart, the 9 energy centers and what they govern, the 6 lines and the archetypes they represent, and an introduction to the Variable (aka the arrows at the top of a human design chart). You will receive access to these videos 1 week before the program starts.
Foundations
before we begin
Learn how to parent in a way that feels fulfilling and sustainable based on your energetic blueprint.
During this module, we will dive into your Type, Authority, Profile, Center definition, and Variables.
The Aligned Parent
WEEK 1 & 2
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This week will be focused on applying your learnings through observation and experimentation. You will be given worksheets and prompts to support the integration process.
Integration
week 3
Discover how to support your child's daily rhythms, emotional needs, and sensitivities while learning how to identify red flag behaviors and anticipate core wounds. Chart aspects that we’ll be exploring include Type, Authority, Undefined Centers, and Solar Plexus definition.
The Aligned Child Pt. 1
WEEK 4 & 5
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Learn about “left brain” vs “right brain” dominance through the lens of human design, and explore the most aligned way for your child to communicate, learn, play, and eat.
Chart aspects we’ll be exploring include Profile, Circuitry, Environment, Strongest sense, and Digestion,
The Aligned Child Pt. 2
week 6 & 7
This week will be focused on applying your learnings through observation and experimentation. You will be given worksheets and prompts to support the integration process.
Integration
week 8
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Dive into the energetic dynamics of your family system, including the ways you naturally complement or compromise one another and learn actionable strategies for playing to each other’s strengths and deepening your connection. Topics that we’ll be exploring include bonding strategies, co-dependence, and common triggers based on center definition.
The Aligned Family
week 9 & 10
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Program Details
Live classes
Live classes will take place on Mondays from 11-12:30pm PST
8 live classes
Plus 2 integration weeks. All sessions will be recorded and available within 24 hours.
10 weeks
Starting September 22, 2025 - Ending November 24, 2025
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Community of like-minded parents, educators, and practitioners
Regular office hours for Q&A and hands-on support
Worksheets and reflection prompts to support integration and experimentation (Notion and PDF versions)
Access to the pre-recorded foundations module (available 1 week before start)
Lifetime access to all materials & replays
Meet Alexandra
Hi, I’m Alexandra Cole. I’m a Human Design educator, author, and mom of two.
When my son was born, I fell for all the “expert” advice–including the importance of sticking to a feeding schedule. When he refused to follow it, I saw it as a reflection of my (poor) parenting abilities and spent hours on Reddit researching what was “wrong” with my child. (Instead of enjoying newborn snuggles!)
Human design changed everything. It taught me to trust my own instincts over the experts – but more importantly, it taught me to trust my son. Turns out, he has “indirect light digestion” which means he’s designed to consume most of his calories later in the day. As soon as I threw out the schedule and let him lead, that’s exactly what he did.
I created Parenting by Design to help you experience the same relief and freedom that comes from understanding your child’s unique preferences, sensitivities, and gifts. I want to help you discover how your family is designed to thrive—so you can parent with more ease, joy, and confidence.
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What you’ll walk away with
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The ability to identify “red flag” behaviors and address common triggers between family members
Tools for communicating in a way that elicits understanding (and a response)
Permission to parent in a way that honors your energy and natural strengths
More confidence in your parenting decisions
Strategies for supporting your child’s emotional development, learning, and dietary needs
A roadmap for fostering harmony and connection in your family for years to come
FAQs
Human Design is a self-awareness tool that gives you insight into how you’re designed to invest your energy and move through the world in the most optimal, effortless, and purposeful way. You can find more details here.
This program is for all knowledge levels. Whether you’re brand new to human design or have been studying this system for years, we meet you where you’re at. The material will touch on a variety of foundational and advanced chart elements, including energy type, authority, profile, environment, digestion, and so much more. All participants are encouraged to complete the Foundations module as pre-work before the live sessions to ensure a basic level of familiarity with the topics that will be covered. All questions are encouraged and will be answered during Office Hours or in our member portal.
No. The information in this program can be used to support parents and children at any stage of development, even if the expression of a certain chart element might vary based on age. We will use examples and discuss strategies that span the age range from newborns to teens.
The Aligned Child Pt. 1
This is not a certification or 101 training. While you will undoubtedly deepen your knowledge of this powerful system, Parenting by Design is designed to help parents and caregivers integrate and apply insights from their family’s human design in order to foster greater connection and better parenting outcomes. Every week, you can expect real-world examples, reflection prompts, opportunities to share your learnings and practical strategies to experiment with at home.
Because this is a live course, we do not offer refunds.
The call recordings will be uploaded to your program portal for you to access at any time and you will be able to submit questions for Office Hours in advance, even if you’re unable to join live. You will also have lifetime access to the program content via the portal.
Still on the Fence?
You’re not alone—some Parenting by Design alumni had similar doubts before joining. Here’s what they discovered:
If you’re thinking….
I’ve purchased parenting courses and resources before and I never really did anything with them.
This isn’t about consuming more information—this is about learning how to apply these insights. It’s a guided experience that meets you where you are and gives you a whole new lens through which to view the world. The live calls, integration weeks, and supportive community are designed to keep you engaged and help you actually implement what you’re learning.
I’m already so busy. I don’t want to add more pressure to my life.
Parenting by Design is about taking pressure off—not about adding another “to-do” to your list. You’ll learn simple, sustainable shifts and strategies that will create more ease and flow in your daily life. As a parent, I intentionally designed the curriculum and exercises to deliver maximum impact with minimal effort.
I have teenagers that are already set in their ways. Will this still be worth it?
Absolutely. In fact, this is a critical time in their development as they’re exposed to significant conditioning pressure from their social and school environments. Human Design can help you build trust and connection, while also encouraging them to honor their own inner compass in the face of all the “shoulds” and “wanna-be’s”.
I’m not a parent, but I do work with kids.
This program isn’t just for parents—it’s for anyone who wants to better understand and support the children in their care. The tools you’ll learn are just as applicable in classrooms, therapy sessions, or caregiving roles.
Join Parenting by Design today and discover a more aligned way of raising the next generation.
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This is a live experience.
All sales are final. Lifetime access included.
You’ll have the chance to add a private 1:1 family session with Alexandra at checkout.
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